Day 7- Chill Out

“Yes, you have to live your life with all its regular demands, but you also have to give yourself the time and space to heal.” The 21 Day Quantum Wellness Cleanse tells us, "Do what you have to do to keep your life running, but make a point to take some time to rest during the cleanse.”

Your body is extremely busy getting rid of toxins and resetting your digestive system, so go easy on yourself. You could need a little more rest than usual.

According to Wellness Cleanse (as well as Ayurvedic practices), your body does most of its healing, detoxifying, metabolism burning, and re-balancing work while you sleep. Aim for 7-8 hours each night.

• Sleep refreshes the nervous system.
  

• HGH (human growth hormone) is produced during deep sleep. Not only is HGH critical for restoration and maintenance of bones, tissue, and muscles, but it also helps us build muscle and burn fat. You must sleep deeply to get the full benefit.
  

• Sleeping regularly and deeply regulates hormones like adrenaline and corticosteroids, relaxing us. Testosterone and fertility hormones are secreted while we sleep, as well (upping sex drive).
  

And here’s a fun fact you can take to the beach: “An annual vacation has been shown to cut the risk of heart attack in men by 30 percent and in women who take two vacations a year by 50 percent.” Vacations reverse burnout, which is real and very bad for your body. Any questions? Now book that trip you've been daydreaming about!

"Homework":
Kathy writes, “Go to bed early with a good book, and sleep in as much as you can during these twenty-one days.”

Meditation:
“Take a few minutes to sit in the sunshine (or the snow)- or in a beautiful spot out in nature- and soak in the beauty.  Look around and see how life thrives without our pushing it to do so.  The trees grow and flowers bloom; day turns to night, the seasons change, and the complex ecology thrives on its own.  Notice how life as a cycle of pushing forward and resting, of action followed by stillness.”

Your body is processing to let go of the old, healing and rejuvenating.

Today, focus on saying to yourself, “I trust the intelligence of my body.” 

While you are resting today, let your food cook itself in the crock pot!

Comfort Food - Sweet Potato, Lentil, and Chickpea Curry
Since this is cooked in the slow cooker, the ingredients get gooey, but retain the nutrients.  Delicious!
If you don’t have a slow cooker, you may make it like a stew and simmer for at least an hour or two.

1 cup dried, split chickpeas
1 cup red or brown lentils
3 cups water (or more depending on what package says for chickpeas and lentils)
2 teaspoons pure chile powder
1 teaspoon turmeric
1 sweet potato, peeled and diced
1 can diced tomatoes
½ cup coconut milk
Salt to taste
¼ cup cilantro (optional)
1 jalapeno chile, seeded and diced small (optional)
diced green onions

1. Put chickpeas, lentils, water, turmeric, chile powder, sweet potato, and diced tomatoes in slow cooker.  Cover and cook on low for 6 to 8 hours, or until chickpeas and lentils are tender.

2. Remove the cover and gently stir in coconut milk.  Add salt to taste and also sample to see if you should add more turmeric & chili powder.  Cook for another ½ hour to an hour.

3. Serve and top each serving with one tablespoon of cilantro, green onions, and a bit of chopped jalapeno.

*Note- I needed less water than the recipe called for. If you are home and can keep an eye on it, I would use less and add if needed.

Day 7 – Chill Out!

“Yes, you have to live your life with all its regular demands, but you also have to give yourself the time and space to heal.” Kathy tells us, "Do what you have to do to keep your life running, but make a point to take some time to rest during the cleanse.”

Your body is extremely busy getting rid of toxins and resetting your digestive system, so go easy on yourself.  You could need a little more rest than usual. 

According to Freston (as well as Ayurvedic practices), your body does most of its healing, detoxifying, metabolism burning, and rebalancing work while you sleep.  Aim for 7-8 hours each night.

• Sleep refreshes the nervous system.

• HGH (human growth hormone) is produced during deep sleep.  Not only is HGH critical for restoration and maintenance of bones, tissue, and muscles, but according to Jillian Michaels, it also helps us build muscle and burn fat.  You must sleep deeply to get the full benefit.

• Sleeping regularly and deeply regulates hormones like adrenaline and corticosteroids, relaxing us.  Testosterone and fertility hormones are secreted while we sleep, as well (upping sex drive).

And here’s a fun fact you can take to the beach: “An annual vacation has been shown to cut the risk of heart attack in men by 30 percent and in women who take two vacations a year by 50 percent.”  Vacations reverse burnout, which is real and very bad for your body.  Any questions?  Now go!

"Homework":
Kathy writes, “Go to bed early with a good book, and sleep in as much as you can during these twenty-one days.” 

In the interest of rest, here’s an easy-peasy dinner: 

Full disclosure: In case you noticed that the pic is a bit grainy...This is a recipe that I’ve made several times and it’s delicious.  The picture is a picture from my Food Network Magazine.  Appropriately as this is rest day, I will be on a short getaway with my husband and we will be dining out.  (That was not planned – very cool how things work out!) 

Mango Black Bean Sweet Potato
15 oz can black beans (drained & rinsed)
1 diced mango
½ cup diced tomato
1 minced jalapeno
2 tablespoons chopped cilantro
2 tablespoons red onion
1 tablespoon olive oil
Juice of 2 limes

Mix all ingredients in a bowl and serve over baked sweet potatoes.  Yum!

How to bake sweet potatoes:  Bake 50 minutes (or until tender) at 400 F (205 C).  Split open, fluff with a fork, and stuff with mixture above.

This is perfect with a salad.  This recipe serves four, so I find that I usually have enough topping to put on lettuce and it pretty much works as the dressing, too.  I like to dice avocado for the salad and add cumin, peanut or canola oil, chili powder, and salt with a little more lime juice as dressing, but it’s not necessary.

Recipe from Food Network Magazine

Meditation:
“Take a few minutes to sit in the sunshine- or in a beautiful spot out in nature- and soak in the beauty.  Look around and see how life thrives without our pushing it to do so.  The trees grow and flowers bloom; day turns to night, the seasons change, and the complex ecology thrives on its own.  Notice how life as a cycle of pushing forward and resting, of action followed by stillness.”

Your body is processing to let go of the old, healing and rejuvenating.

Today, focus on saying to yourself, “I trust the intelligence of my body.”

Sometimes being Kind is as important as being Present

Because I was trying so hard to focus on being present while my Type A family members were trying to rush from point A to point B while discussing point C, I found myself growing utterly impatient.  I wanted my companions to EXPERIENCE New York City since it was their first time there.  I wanted to “stop and smell the…” ok, in NYC maybe I didn’t want to use the sense of smell as much.

But definitely to linger, to soak it in.  I found myself getting rushed along and growing bitter.

However, I now realize that just because being present was important to me, it was still something that I was struggling with just a month ago.  How could I expect my travel companions to be open to it or even consciously trying to employ it when it was still so new to me and not at all a focus for them? 

What’s ironic and a little bit awful is that I was so critical of how we were losing our experiences in the present moment, that I spent a great deal of time in my head being angry, also losing my own experience.  What I missed was kindness and compassion.  And now I can never get that time back to experience travel with 3 of my truly favorite people who I love dearly.

I’d like to illustrate an experience to give you an idea of what I was facing - If only I had been able to giggle then instead of turn grumpy (another excuse: it was 95 degrees and humid…)

Ahead of time, my mom emailed: “I was told by the hotel that we must be sure we travel only in the YELLOW NYC TAXI CABS.  Not the black gypsy cabs.”  I acknowledged the email, saying, “yes, this is good advice.”

As we were exiting the airport, there was a sign: Ground Transportation.  As we were walking in that direction, my mom said to my aunt, “We must make sure it’s a yellow taxi cab.”  My aunt said to me, “make sure it’s a yellow taxi cab.”  While looking at the sign, my mom asked, “But does Ground Transportation mean they will have the YELLOW taxi cabs?” 

My aunt promptly found someone working at the airport to ask if “Ground Transportation was the way towards the YELLOW taxi cabs.”  We were told yes, go outside the door and you will find many yellow taxi cabs waiting.  As we walked outside, they were still reiterating to each other that we must find a yellow taxi cab.

The line was very long and I saw a sign for another taxi stand around the way.  I decided to go ahead and check it out.  There were yellow cabs lined up all around the corner and very few people waiting, so I ran back and told my mom and aunt to follow me.  The questions:

“Did you find taxi cabs?”  “Are you quite sure they are YELLOW taxi cabs?” 

Exasperated, I walked forward, wordlessly leading the way.  As they looked at the yellow cabs lined up around the block, my mom asked, “But are they New York City yellow taxi cabs?”  I pointed out that they said “New York City” on the side and that they were indeed very yellow.

As I looked around the city, my mom and aunt discussed among themselves how they had to be sure that all of our taxi cabs were yellow…

Looking back now with love, I can see that they were just nervous to be in a new city and they wanted to try to control the few things that they saw themselves able to control for their comfort level. 

The Experience is just as much about not judging everything that happens as it is about stopping to notice and appreciate the moments.

Ever heard the story of that person who went on a two-week vacation and returned so full of perspective that they quit on the spot?  Took me two weeks after that, but yeah.  That was me.  Still paying for the trip, too, by the way.